The million dollar question. Every day I get a few messages that in one way or another have to do with this topic, so I have decided to make this post as a quick link when someone asks me how much I get paid per hour.
I do not want to get into debates or quote lexical definition of dictionaries, so I will explain briefly what I think about this.
Yes, I get paid for having sex. But I do not have sex because I get paid. I mean: the people with who I have sex in my scenes really turn me on , and I would fuck with them in my life off-camera. I ‘m doing something that I love and ALSO I’m living because of it.
I do not fuck with everyone, inside or outside of the screen. If in a scene I do not like the actor, I reject the job. If I do not like the practices , I reject the job. If I do not like the quality, I reject the job.
I have never done and will never do a scene with someone who really does not attract me. And I will not do something that I don’t enjoy beyond the cameras, even for all the money in the world .
Because my sexuality and my interests are above any monetary amount.
I’m not selling myself. Although I get paid.
I’m not a prostitute, because the criteria that I apply when accepting a shoot go beyond the economic ones.
So if you have sex with people you like both front and back of the cameras, Why are you shooting? What gives it to you?
For me, the first difference is that there is a camera. And more important, the scene I’m recording is going to be seen for a lot of people.
I am extremely exhibitionist, and knowing that I will be seen for all this people gets me horny. So, add another big turn-on to the situation: being recorded.
But that’s not all. Porn gives me the opportunity to fulfill some sexual fantasies that otherwise would have been difficult to carry out: fuck in a sauna, Fuck with the roleplay teacher / student, being penetrated while I’m suspended by ropes from the ceiling.
And here are my reasons to be in the porn industry and enjoy it in a healthy way: I have sex with people who I like, I do things that I enjoy, I experiment with my sexuality and I fullfill my exhibitionist personality.
The money is not among my reasons.
Of course this is my choice and how I work. There are many girls in the industry who combine their work as an actress with being scorts or prostitutes. For me that’s great.
But in my case, and if you’re really considering how to sleep with me, give me money certainly is not the way. Offer me intelligence. Offer me fun. Personal evolution. New experiences. Challenges. Offer me sex. No money.